How do you all use the Daiso Lidlshot?

Have you tried the Daiso Lidle Shot products? I have sensitive skin, so it gets red and irritated if I use the wrong product. However, while Daiso tints and cosmetics are generally relatively gentle and good, the Daiso Lidle Shot 300 seems to sting a bit more than I expected.

How should I use this to minimize the stinging? I usually use the Liddle Shot as the first step, but would it be better to use it after my toner and essence? Or should I mix it with my essence and use it as the first step? ...Sigh

My face gets red after using it, whereas others say their pores tighten and their skin becomes radiant. Mine feels like it has gotten thinner and lost all its oil, making it look even older. Ugh, so upsetting.