Contouring product that does not wash off with oil

hello.

I found that contouring fails if done in places that are too dark or too bright.

I feel like it's a surprisingly difficult makeup technique. Is there a place where everyone always adds shading?

I've noticed that just doing your makeup properly makes your face look smaller... haha. I really need to practice hard!!

My face is very oily, so I'm looking for a product that is moisturizing yet doesn't smudge!!

If I want to use it daily, I hope the ingredients aren't irritating.

What products does everyone use?