skin texture concerns

My skin feels like it's oily yet dry, and I have way too many pores ㅠㅠ. I've tried every lotion that's supposed to be good, but my skin dries out quickly. I'm trying to manage my skin texture, but I don't know where I went wrong... I have pores, breakouts, dryness, and oiliness, and I even want to get rid of all the fine hairs on my skin, but I'm not sure if that's okay. My biggest concern is my pores, so what should I do to get rid of them?