My skin peels off a lot after washing my face. Is there a refreshing toner available?

I thought I had quite oily skin during puberty, but as I get older, it feels like the oiliness is decreasing and my skin is gradually turning dry.

I'm writing because after washing my face, it feels tight and I'm getting a lot of dead skin cells on my forehead.

It gets better if I apply skin lotion, but it is bothersome because my skin gets a little oily every time I use it.

I might be being picky about this, but I generally have trouble using oily products.

Are there any good toners or lotions out there that I can use lightly after washing my face to help exfoliate?