I'm worried because my pores have become too wide.

I wasn't interested in pores before.

I haven't really done much skincare or exfoliation before. But one day, I looked at my skin and was shocked to see so many holes on both cheeks. Even when I applied makeup, it kept getting stuck in my pores. I wondered when it got like this, and thinking back, it wasn't really about managing blackheads or sebum, but I hated how they looked. So, although not often, I would use patches to extract the sebum or squeeze them out when I could see them. It felt satisfying when the sebum came out, too, haha. I guess I only focused on that and didn't pay any attention to my pores. Now I buy and use a gentle blackhead remover, but are there any home remedies or cosmetics that could help shrink my pores?