Can oil solve the problem of enlarged pores?

When I apply cushion foundation or regular foundation, I find that it settles into very bad spots and sometimes cakes due to my pores. Even after applying base makeup, I am still worried about my pores, but I can't bring myself to use primer because I'm afraid they will get even wider. I'm really stressed about my pores; is there any solution? ㅠㅠ No matter how good the products I use or how proper my skincare routine is, cakeiness and settling seem to be a given. Will cleansing oil, cleansing balm, or cleansing foam be able to resolve blackheads and enlarged pores?