I recommend a natural-colored lip balm.

This is a Burt's Bees lip balm with a slight tint. (The reason it's so scratched is because my dog ​​played with it 😂) It's a natural-looking tinted lip balm, so anyone can use it regardless of gender. The shade I use is called "Hibiscus something-or-other," and the color isn't too intense; it develops into a shade somewhere between pink and red. Since it moisturizes the lips and provides a natural color, you can apply it anytime without looking in the mirror. Even if it wears off, your lips remain hydrated, which is really great.