What type of essence do people with very curly hair use?

My hair is very curly; what type of essence should I use?

Water-type evaporates quickly, doesn't get greasy, and looks frizzy.

The oil type is heavy, but I think it might look greasy (I have thick hair....)

I think the wax will have too strong a hold.

The look I want is like when you go to a hair salon and they spray you with a spray bottle~

At that time, I want my hair to feel soft and easy to comb...

Do you happen to have any product recommendations?