How do people with large pores achieve a glow makeup look?

I have many large, deep pores. When I do my makeup, covering them is my top priority, and I feel like I spend almost 90% of my time just trying to hide them. Because of this, makeup that highlights pores is out of reach for me, and the same goes for glow makeup. While everyone else is going around radiating a dewy glow, I haven't even had a shimmer; I've just been wearing a super-powdery, powdery look using matte pore primers and pore-blurring powders. If I try to add some glow to my face by using a moisturizing product, my skin quickly becomes cakey and oily, with the oil pooling right into my pores. Thinking that dewy bases wouldn't work, I even tried powder highlighters, but they just made the pore contours look even more uneven and prominent. Is glow makeup impossible for people with large pores? How do people with big pores manage to do glow makeup? Please share your tips and tricks.