How should I manage my pores and sebum?

As the weather gets warmer, my pores are getting bigger and my sebum is being secreted excessively, so it stresses me out every time I look in the mirror.

The weather shows no signs of cooling down, and it is so hot even though it is mid-September.

My face is a total mess because I couldn't take care of it at all during the holidays.

I have breakouts that are hard to even squeeze, and the sebum on my nose is insane.

I've been managing it by using pads to soften sebum, but it keeps popping up after just a few days.

I tend to keep my makeup simple, so it's upsetting that my pores and sebum are visible.

I do this about once or twice a week. How do others manage their sebum? If you have any good tips, please share them.