Hair wax products

I've had a lot of gray hair since I was young, and since my hair is straight, if I just go around, it looks like a total bucket hat.

I have used various wax products, but when I first apply the wax, style my hair, blow-dry, and set it,

At most, the kids would start getting discouraged after more than an hour.

I put a lot of effort into uploading, transferring, and setting it up, but it’s completely useless. But if I don't set it up...

It's just such an old man's bucket hat style.

For those with thin and weak hair like mine

Are there any hair products that maintain hold for a long time and are good for the scalp and hair?

Since I don't have very thick hair, I'm also worried about hair loss, so I'm hesitant to use products that are really bad.