How is everyone managing to maintain a neat impression?

Usually, when people talk about maintaining a neat appearance, they think of things like skin care, eyebrow grooming, and trimming the upper lip beard.

My skin is full of scars, and my eyebrows are really thick so I pluck them one by one to groom them. I used to just leave the mustache alone, but lately it's started bothering me so much.

For skincare and eyebrow grooming, you can just visit a dermatologist, apply proper skincare, and trim them to fit your eyebrow shape. But how does everyone else manage their upper lip beard? I tried self-waxing and ended up tearing off the epidermis, so I'm really suffering right now ㅠㅠ I'm so curious how you all manage yours 🥹 Please share tips on how to create a clean look without irritation ㅠㅠ!!