How to get revenge on an ENFJ;

I started contacting an ENFJ guy. We met just as an older brother and younger sister, so I assumed we were just trying to get close. But then, on my way to work in the morning, he said, "I don't want to go to work, I just want to hang out with you," so I figured he had feelings for me. I actually had feelings for him too, so I flirted a little bit back! It was definitely the right time to confess, but why isn't he doing it? I decided to try and have a proper date, so I deliberately steered our plans toward ending at the Han River and some drinks.

Over the weekend, I watched a movie, went to a cafe, visited the Han River, and had some drinks. I didn't intentionally look at his phone; I just glanced at it while coming back from the restroom and saw him texting a woman. I tried to let it slide, thinking they were just close friends. But since I ply him with alcohol and deliberately pour him drinks, he started getting a bit tipsy. I tried to subtly probe him, but his response was a bit ambiguous. When I got home, I contacted his acquaintances on Instagram and dug deeper, only to find out he was in contact with and dating several women. I feel so wronged that I want to die, and I really want to get revenge. What is the best way to get revenge on an ENFJ?

 

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    굳이 복수를 할 필요는 없을 것 같아요 유저님께서 감정 소비하시면서 그 사람에게 시간을 더 들이는 건 유저님의 시간이 더 아까워요 그 사람도 언젠가 다시 다 되돌려 받을거예요
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    어장은 그냥 무시하시는 게 괜찮을 것 같아요...
  • 어장남에게 복수할만한 방법은 없을 것 같아요ㅜ 그냥 무시하시는 게 작성자님에게도 좋을 것 같아요
  • 복수보다는 그냥 무시하시는게 어떨까요? 복수를 하다가 더 상처 받으실 수도 있어요ㅜ
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    갈등 상황을 별로 안 좋아하더라구요 앞에다가 대놓고 너 쓰레기라고 욕하는 게 제일 충격 받을 거에요..ㅋ
  • 무시하기가 제일 좋은 것 같아요 대꾸도 하지 말고 그냥 없는 듯 무시하기 요
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    복수는 추천드리지 않을게요.. 화가 났어도 복수 하게되면 하는 과정에서 유저분만 또 열불날 것 같아요
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    엔프제가 이성친구를 많이 두는건지 그냥 어장이었는지는 모르겠지만 그냥 연락오는거 다 무시하고 안만나보는게 어떨까요?
  • 그냥 어장 치는 거였네요 일반화 하는건 아니지망 엔프제가 성격이 온화하고 친절해서 주위에 이성친구가 많다고 들었어요ㅜ 하지만 복수 하는건 본인이 너무 안좋은 사람이 될 수 있으니 그냥 연락 끊고 끝내시길 바래요

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